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How To Remember Hard Names

By John Graham

Today’s Question: How do you remember HARD names?

The basic technique for remembering names is to create an image or association for their name and attach that image/association to the person. Create a simple, memorable story.

Examples: 
Olivia makes me think of an olive.
Olivia has black hair.
I imagine her black hair is made out of olives.

Stephanie is also my neighbor’s name.
Stephanie has a really beautiful smile.
I imagine Stephanie visits my neighbor with a big smile 🙂

But what if you can’t think of an image or association??

Here’s what I do:

I meet a girl named Gabriella.

Her name doesn’t make me think of any image or association…and I don’t know any other Gabriellas.

First, I repeat her name back to her.
“Gabriella, where are you from?”

I repeat her name a few more times in my head.

THEN
I use the first sound of her name “G” and think of an image that starts with the same sound. Could be “gum” or “gas” or “grab”. Doesn’t really matter.

Then I associate that image to her.
I imagine Gabriella is chewing gum and then she sticks it in her curly hair.

I think to myself, “I know she has a longer, harder name so this will help me remember what it starts with.”

95 times out of 100 I will easily remember their name later on, because
a) I repeated her name a few times
b) I made a simple image/association to remember the first sound of her name. This will trigger the memory of her name.

One more thing you can do is visualize how her name is spelled. Almost as if you imagine reading it on a name tag. Do this when you repeat her name to yourself. This helps me a lot.

Good luck and always try to remember people’s names!

Everyone loves hearing the sound of their own name and everyone loves it when you remember them.

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Why Everyone Sucks at Remembering Names

By John Graham

Everyone sucks at remembering names. 

CORRECTION: Everyone THINKS they suck at remembering names.

How many times have you been afraid to talk to the person you just met, because you couldn’t remember their name?

Add those all up over the course of your lifetime.
You’ve missed out on connections, relationships, opportunities…

All cuz you couldn’t remember a name.

That changes today.

You’ve probably heard my tips on remembering names before, but I want to give you something new today.

Normally when you remember someone’s name, you think of an image that reminds you of that name:
Liz = lizard
Joe = sloppy joe
Adam = apple

Then you imagine that image on a prominent feature of their face.

But sometimes you come across a name that doesn’t conjure a good image. 

Names like Madison and Henry. Or harder ones like Monique and Gustavo.

That’s when you get creative.

Imagine people you already know with that name:
That girl from your high school named Madison.
Imagine the Madison you know wrapping her arms around the Madison you just met.

Or take part of their name to make an image:
Henry = hen
Gustavo = gust of wind

Or make something up…using the first thing that pops into your head:
Monique = imagine she’s moaning…and think “she’s unique“
(moan + unique)
It’s weird, but effective.

I don’t recommend telling people you are doing this. Remembering their name is the goal…not weirding them out.

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How to impress women by remembering their name

By John Graham

Want to know how to impress women (and men) and get them to like you more??

Remembering and calling them by their name is STEP #1.
(Most people SUCK at this. Don’t be like most people here.)

*Yes, I knew all of their names (Russian names) within a minute or two by following the steps below.*

Step #2 is demonstrating that you are unique and that you hold value (I’m not talking about money).

If you forgot, here’s HOW to Remember Names:

1) Focus on getting their name. Don’t let your mind wander by thinking about lunch. Be present with them.

2) Turn their name into an image. Based on what it reminds you of or sounds like. For example:

  • Elaine = car lane
  • Liz = Lizard
  • Victoria = victorious! (like she just won something)
  • Mark = marker
  • Ben =bending

3) Pick a feature on them that sticks out to you.

  • Curly hair, freckles, earrings, mustache, big nose…

4) Attach/link the image to the feature. Create a story.

  • If Elaine has curly hair = you’re driving a tiny car on a lane thru her curly hair and get tangled. Imagine her reaction to this.
  • It’s silly, but it will stick in your memory.

__________
My secret mission in Russia (part 2) was a success…as you can see in the picture 🙂

Here’s a link to watch my TV episode with these Russian ladies: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f-yM2wE3vEs&t=

I will share with you in a few weeks (hopefully sooner) what this was all about and give you an inside look at HOW I did what I did & how I really met all these women.

Stay tuned…

Do svidaniya!
(that’s “goodbye” in Russian)

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